Question by dievanity: How do I get over my ex?
We’ve been broken up for about two months now, and I’m having problems moving on. We were dating for nine months, and broke up just before our anniversary and valentines day. Not even a week after being broken up he started dating this girl he worked with, although when we were dating he told me he thought she was disgusting and looked like a drug addict. I don’t understand how he could have moved on so quickly and I’m still having problems moving on, this was my first serious relationship, and things were always rocky and ended in a bad way.. I try getting out there and hanging out with my friends, and staying as active as I possibly can, but nothing seems to work and I can’t get him off of my mind..
Answer by Lee
i am so sorry…i totally understand what you are going through…. i dated a girl that i met doing what i love, playing tennis (i am pretty good, won my univ’s tournament twice) well i really fell for this girl, we are both geeks and both love to play tennis, she would always mention our wedding and how my crazy uncle was going to embarrass us, i really thought i was going to marry for 9 months as well. i brought her home and my family welcomed her, and we even lived together spending 3-4 days a week together. we cooked together, cuddled and watched movies, played tennis, and just enjoyed life. well i found out she sent a naughty text to her exbf and thats when things got kind of tricky…she said she was sorry and didn’t mean it etc etc..
well i miss her even this minute and its been nearly 4 months…but what hurts the most is that the last time i saw her we woke up in the morning and i kissed her goodbye and told her i loved her and she said she loved me back, and i drove home…. well i called her the next day and i asked where she was, and i heard a guy in the background, she was at her exbfs house…i had a long conversation with both of them and told her i had to break up with her (asked them if they had sex) well…i didn’t call her for a week, and when i called her asking if she wanted to try to work things out she said she met somebody (her neighbor!) and he was just a sorry guy imo, looked like a crackhead hillbillly, made me sick…well now she is engaged and the wedding is on june 4th…
she was the first girl i brought home and i thought we really loved each other. its very difficult for me as well. but don’t contact him, he doesn’t deserve your love, same as my ex.
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